Dating with me
I cancelled dinner with friends tonight as who the hell wants to hang out with a total wet blanket. So that I could invite myself over and he could make me feel better about myself. I mean, rough hands are good, but his hands were nasty! Most of 2017 was spent trying to get back to blonde. No, not in the dipshitty, space cadet kinda way (sorry all you dipshitty, space cadet-y blondes). It’s sort of amazing how much mental free time I have on my hands when I’m not preoccupied with trying to over analyze every single thought, action and statement that any random man may be having regarding me (or not about me, for that matter). Filed under: bumble,dating,internet dating,karma,online dating,single,texting,tinder, Uncategorized — Grey Goose, Dirty @ am Tags: communication, cyber dating, dating, introspective bullshit, karma, missed opportunities, online dating, practice what you preach, priorities, relationships, single, texting, vacation So he who still doesn’t have a blog name leaves for vacation today. I told him that I wished that we could have gotten together before he left. I’m going to enjoy the hell out of my own damn vacation! It just means I’ll pay attention and while I can ‘mirror’ his effort, I will not do all the work. The one with the guy that overshares about all the feels.I considered, several times today, texting Red (my Tinder lunch date from last week) to see what he was doing tonight. Guess it’s just me, my dog, my Grey Goose & sodas (damn diet) and this lovely series on Showtime called Gigolos. This year I’m considering a lower key hair color transformation. As I’ve gotten older, my natural color has gotten more dark (and grey, but I can pull those off as highlights). Nope, wasn’t even guilt trippy or passive aggressive. He responded right back with another apology and saying he wished we could have gotten together as well, but that he just sort of ran out of time. Of course I won’t completely write him off as I do think he’s a good guy, but I will pay attention to what he does when I return. Now, while I never lie to others, we all know that I’m pretty damn good at lying to myself, so I guess we’ll see….. I’m sure I’ve written many (many) posts with this same title in my decade of online dating. The one that got pissed at me when we 1st messaged all those months ago and did the online equivalent of stomping off in a huff because he felt I wasn’t responding to his messages quickly enough. To be clear, when I am not overly excited about someone (or even if I am), I am not available 24/7 to immediately respond to messages from guys online. I will admit, that if/when I’m having a senior moment, I may actually forget. I will usually respond as soon as I see the message.Dating sites can be a fun and interesting way to meet new people.If you've been putting off joining one because of high membership fees, try using dating coupons for a cheaper rate when you sign up.
Give yourself two hours to walk, talk and enjoy each other’s company before settling down to a picnic in the middle of nowhere.
The big baby had sent “I’m cancelling our date tomorrow night as I feel that if you’re going to meet someone, you should want to find out about them”. What else am I doing with my sloth-like day of nothing? Inevitably though, I choose to ignore it all and do what I want.